maaf ,aku tak ingin menyakiti siapapun

Ada yang mengatakan bahwa "lebih baik dicintai daripada mencintai". Tapi terkadang dicintai bukan selalu berarti lebih baik dari mencintai apabila dia bukan orang yang kita cintai. Mencintai malah terlihat jauh lebih baik karena itu adalah pilihan hati. Bukannya egois atau bersikap jahat. Tapi karena tidak ingin menyakiti perasaan seseorang yang mencintai kita, karena kita tidak mampu memberi perasaan yang sama. Bila dipaksa hanya akan ada kepura-puraan. Dan sepahit apapun kejujuran tetap lebih menyakitkan kepura-puraan. Aku sangat menghargai perasaanmu, kau pantas mendapatkan kebahagiaan dan aku berharap kau menemukan seseorang yang mampu membalas perasaanmu dengan tulus tapi itu bukan aku. Kejujuran ini karena aku tidak ingin memberi harapan-harapan semu yang tidak pernah bisa kupenuhi. Aku tidak ingin menyakiti kamu atau siapapun, aku hanya ingin jujur dengan perasaan ini. Satu hal cinta memang tak bisa dipaksa. Maaf ..

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Beraneka Ragam Itu Satu

Langsung To the  point aja,

Saudara-saudara, agan-agan,mas bro, mba bro masih inget sama semboyan negara kita ini.

Pasti inget kan , satu kalimat sakti yang ditulis di pita yang dicengkeram Garuda. Ya “Bhinneka Tunggal Ika” , kalau untuk penemu atau pengarang kata-kata itu tau juga kan . Yang pasti bukan eyang subur, beliau adalah Mpu Tantular. Beliau menulis kalimat  “Bhinneka Tunggal Ika” ini dalam sebuah kitab yaitu,  Kitab Sutasoma yang ditulis semasa kerajaan Majapahit sekitar abad ke-14. (Kitab sutasoma ya pemirsa bukan kitab suci yang dibawa Sun Go Kong) 

Kenapa saya tanya masalah semboyan bangsa kita, karena sepertinya saat ini orang-orang banyak yang lupa atau mungkin sengaja melupakan kalimat itu. Baru-baru ini aja gara-gara selisih pendapat ada orang yang nyiramin air teh ke wajah orang yang selisih pendapat sama dia. Itu masih mending air teh, coba air keras apa ga bonyok. Padahal cuma karena masalah sepele, hanya karena beda pendapat  sampe segitunya emosi, lebih ekstrim lagi kalo beda pendapat, terus ngerasa tersinggung, gak suka langsung ngeluarin samurai (layaknya seorang ninja hatori). Apa coba, come on! itu cuma masalah kecil yang bisa diatasi dengan berlapang dada. (Pernah belajar PPKN ga sih -__-#) (dulu waktu saya sekolah namanya PPKN)

Balik lagi ke semboyan tadi, arti “Bhinneka Tunggal Ika”. “Bhinneka Tunggal Ika” berasal dari bahasa Sansekerta yang kalau diterjemahkan per kata , bhinneka artinya beraneka ragam, tunggal artinya satu, ika artinya itu . Jadi “Bhinneka Tunggal Ika” berarti  meskipun berbeda-beda tetapi tetap satu juga. Udah jelas banget kan , meski kita berbeda-beda kita itu tetepsatu, bangsa Indonesia. Dari sabang sampai merauke dari tanah abang sampe rawa bangke semua orangnya berbeda-beda, ga da yang sama. Mau dari fisik, penampilan ,sifat, tingkah laku, apalagi pemikirannya.  Jadi kenapa harus dipermasalahin masalah perbedaan itu. Manusia itu kan justru unik dengan perbedaannya. Coba aja kalo kita punya baju satu lemari modelnya, warnanya sama semua. Males kan, bosen liatnya. Sama aja kalo misalkan semua orang itu sama, hidup jadi monoton ga berwarna-warni hahaha. *^O^*

Jadi jangan lah sia-siain semboyan kita itu, kalimat itu udah dibuat dengan sedemikian indahnya. Sayang kan kalo ga diterapin padahal maknanya bagus banget.  Ga  mau kan, semboyan bangsa kita dirubah jadi “ceumunggudh-ceumunggudh  ea kaka!!”. 

Tuhan juga mengajarkan kita untuk saling bertoleransi , saling menghormati dan saling menghargai. Jadi kenapa harus pusing dengan masalah perbedaan. Masing-masing manusia memang diciptakan berbeda dengan tiap-tiap keunikannya. Ya kan ^__^....

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The voice-winning children's dreams

We just like the other kids, go to school every day. Because we want smart.

We also have the same ideals with the other children, we want to be successful.

Could become the future generation of the plume.

We wanted to be useful to the nation. Because our next baton holder.

Just different, when the other children went to school with a relaxed and some

even escorted ride. 

While traveling to our school to a little different, such as outbound,

we have to pass this bridge every day.

This is actually very risk, at times we may fall because there was no safety equipment at all.

We just try to be careful not to slip.

If we were going to fall uniformly wet, or perhaps a small body we will drift ,drifting river.

But this situation never understate our passion to keep going to

school, in order to realize our lofty ideals. We must keep to the school.

Even so, deep down in our hearts, we hope the adults in power there want to

ease our way to school, we did not ask for our streets to be paved or improved

and the school was given a luxury car to drive us to school.

Enough fix this bridge, we have been very pleased.

Because this bridge is our liaison with the ideals of our future.

The voice-winning children's dreams

credit picture :

http://mediaranahjaya.blogspot.com/2013/03/sekolah-bertaruh-nyawa-10-jembatan.html

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My nostalgia

In the morning, the rooster crows.

I woke rushed to shower and change uniforms. Out of the house accompanied by the warm rays of the sun. I smell the cool air in the morning. Hmm,,, morning smell, very comfortable.

I walked, then stopped to wait four other friends gathered. While waiting for a friend who is yet to come, we usually mild joke. After a few minutes we've gathered five of our means to immediately go to the school abuzz. Along the way to meet other friends greet each other. Some there are who go ride a bike, but I and my friends choose to walk. Although the schools to home is rather far ,we have become accustomed. For we , went to school on the foot  it's fun because while exercising can also. Along the way we chatted and occasionally joked back, without feeling we've arrived at the school. The bell rang we all get into the classroom. From the window of my classroom, I could immediately see Slamet mountain. Unusual scene when I saw first elementary school in Jakarta. God's creation is truly extraordinary nature.

I felt this incredible, is not as busy in all the different cities. Here feels more peaceful..
It was already noon, now the home bell rang. Five of us go home, change from warm sunshine to be scorching. But we never complained even though the heat was very oppressive, usually to relieve the heat we stopped to buy coconut ice. Well there we were joking until he came back towards the house. The next day the same thing happen sometimes coupled with new stories.

Actually this is my memory of when I was school first, the memory of it still attached. Everyday  smiling, laughing off without load. Our first is not as advanced today's children are facilitated by a wide range of gadgets. But we were happy, there was never a sense that the kids today say "galau". I just know it feels happy to have friends who always make me smile. Period of nostalgia that can not be forgotten. Such as the lyrics in the song Sheila on 7,,,,,

Bersenang-senanglah,,

karena hari ini yang kan kita rindukan,di hari nanti

sebuah kisah klasik untuk masa depan

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Simple thing make the hardest thing

Come without cause
Past the boundaries of space and time
Bringing a taste of nowhere
That is not easily guessed, the usual way
It took a lot of time, to decipher
A bit of a puzzle
Looks simple, but can not be underestimated
it’s about heart
Not that easy to answer the mathematical formula that is set
Abstract feelings that can not be quickly understood
Especially when you've met the maturation process
It would be very difficult to understand how
Although only one conclusion
I need some time
Let the mystery of this puzzle
Runs in time
To then stop by itself
Then show the explanation on the fact
Can you re-take the time
For longer enjoy
This complicated situation
Once again it’s about heart

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